Sober as a judge? Not a problem at Bills.

If you are anything like me the first few weeks of knowing your pregnant can be tricky adjusting to not having that glass of red after a long day at work. But knowing you are pretty lucky to be pregnant certainly helps! The challenge really comes when you go out with friends and the only options open to you are water or orange juice. You don’t necessarily mind not drinking, but you don’t want to feel ostracised… feeling part of the party isn’t much to ask.

Bill's Restaurant St Albans Hertfordshire

Bill’s Restaurant, St Albans city centre eatery in Hertfordshire

Last weekend we had the exciting task of meeting with our best friends and their gorgeous 4 month old (I’m still holding back identities until we’ve reached 12 weeks) to tell them all about our news. Knowing the little fella would be with us we were looking for a lunch venue in St Albans that would be baby friendly and I was keen to see if they would be pregnancy friendly, so we decided on Bill’s on Chequer Street in the main city centre.

Our initial impression was a little concerning as they had placed us in possibly the worst location with a pushchair and 4 month old, next to the whirling oversized trays of hot food being danced through the restaurant by very busy waiters on a Saturday afternoon. We had booked 3 days earlier and informed them we would need a location for the pushchair but I think the Saturday madness had forced us to an unsuitable table. Luckily the very helpful host and waitress speedily cleared a table that had just emptied in the corner and we were quickly seated. I have to say that is the only negative I have to say, the remainder of our lunch was absolutely delightful.

DYClMORCTHqGN%lIBn70LQAfter receiving the drinks menu I looked at it anxiously avoiding the lovely looking cocktails and tempting wines to be pleasantly surprised at the over whelming non-alcoholic drinks offering. Not only did they have the regular classics of Virgin Bloody Mary, Elderflower Presse and Tropical Smoothies but also new to the market Alt-Gin Ceder’s which certainly could fool the biggest fan of the popular Hendricks Gin and Tonic. There certainly needs to be more restaurants like Bill’s that look to expand their non-alcoholic offering. It would be great to celebrate with friends with a glass of non-alcoholic bubbles but I am yet to find a bar or restaurant to ever stock any. I will have to stick to juice and water for most places and be pleasantly surprised when I get a bit more choice.

Thanks Bills, St Albans, I will certainly be frequenting your venue over the next 8 months a fair bit.

And So The Journey Begins…

Bump DiariesLast week I had my first positive test with ClearBlue, those words that we have been longing to see for the past few months ‘pregnant 1-2 weeks’ Yes! In fact, I didn’t quite believe it and neither did the hubby, so like mad people we let it sink in and then had to take another test. With anticipation we waited for the little egg timer on the test to go round and round and again the words appear ‘pregnant 1-2 weeks.

I know it sounds strange to be surprised when we had been pro actively trying for some months, but only a few days before I had what I though was the ‘time of the month’ and had even had blood tests to see if anything was wrong to be on the safe side. Worry did now set in and I was frantically looking online to find out what the previous bleeding meant and if it would stick. I’m sure I’m not the first mum that wants to feel excited but nervous to do so, and so the lovely people at my local surgery admitted me to Lister Hospital where I had a scan and we saw the little sack and egg yolk exactly where it should be, my husband even took the opportunity to crack a joke with the Sonographer ‘yes, that’s where I was aiming!’. Really, you can’t take them anywhere.

But this gave us the chance now to actually feel the elation and excitement that comes with finding out your going to be a mom and dad… and so the journey begins.